submit urlsubmit rss feedadd directory

article

Polyamory, in its broadest usage, is the practice or lifestyle of being open to having more than one loving, intimate relationship at a time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. Persons who consider themselves emotionally suited to such relationships may define themselves as polyamorous, often abbreviated to poly.

Terminology


Polyamory is a hybrid word: poly is Greek for many and amor is Latin for love. It has been independently coined by several people, including Morning Glory Zell-Ravenheart whose article "A Bouquet of Lovers" (1990) is widely cited as the source of the word (but see below), and Jennifer Wesp who created the Usenet newsgroup alt.polyamory in 1992 *. However, the term has been reported in occasional use since the 1960s , and even outside polygamous cultures such relationships existed well before the name was coined; for one example dating from the 1920s, see William Moulton Marston.

The word "polyamory" does not actually appear in "A Bouquet of Lovers", referenced above. The article uses "polyamorous", but its original version introduced the term in hyphenated form, "poly-amorous". The article consistently uses "polygamy" as the counterpart to "monogamy". This indicates that at the time, the author was not yet using the word "polyamory", and did not consider "polyamorous" an established word either. There are no verifiable sources showing the word polyamory in common use until after alt.polyamory was created. The older term polyfidelity, a subset of polyamory, was coined decades earlier at Kerista.

More on [ Polyamory ]


directory of related categories

 

 
directory of related topics

Intentional Communities :: Lifestyle Choices
Polygamy :: Alternative Lifestyles

 
Polyamory RSS feed
NPR Topics: Politics & Society

Shopping For Armed Forces In Hemet
Thu, 03 Jul 2008 13:00:00 -0400
For many young people in tiny Hemet, Calif., the first stop after graduation is that town's Armed Forces Career Center. More than five years into the Iraq war, the center provides one-stop-shopping for potential Army, Navy and Marine recruits.
Why Rural U.S. Towns See More Casualties
Thu, 03 Jul 2008 13:00:00 -0400
Residents of Hemet, Calif. know all too well about military casualties. They're not alone — that town's story has been repeated in rural communities across the country. We examine why soldiers from rural areas are more likely to die in combat and how voters in those areas see the Iraq war.
Is Obama Sliding To The Center?
Thu, 03 Jul 2008 13:00:00 -0400
Some of the Democratic candidate's supporters are expressing frustration with what they see as a slide toward the center. Markos Moulitsas, founder of The DailyKos political blog, discusses how Obama is trying to appeal to moderates.

The Talk of the Town

The Chill
Nick Paumgarten Mon, 30 Jun 2008 04:00:00 -0000
If you had stumbled into Banjo Jim’s, in the East Village, on a recent Wednesday night and encountered a sixty-something guy leading a band through a fervent rendition of “Wild Thing,” for an audience of two dozen or so, you might have concluded, “This is lame,” and slipped back . . .
Oily Speculations
James Surowiecki Mon, 30 Jun 2008 04:00:00 -0000
When bad things happen, it’s always nice to have a scapegoat. So, with Americans furious about soaring oil prices, Congress has gone in search of someone to blame. There are a number of usual suspects to choose from, depending on your politics--OPEC, greedy oil companies, lily-livered environmentalists opposed . . .
Obama’s Iraq Problem
George Packer Mon, 30 Jun 2008 04:00:00 -0000
In February, 2007, when Barack Obama declared that he was running for President, violence in Iraq had reached apocalyptic levels, and he based his candidacy, in part, on a bold promise to begin a rapid withdrawal of American forces upon taking office. At the time, this pledge represented conventional thinking . . .

 
Subscribe to Society RSS feed

directory of related sites

alt.polyamory Home Page - Extensive set of resources about polyamory, containing FAQs, essays, spots for personal ads, groups, and art.

A Polyamory Community - A LiveJournal community, for those who are interested in polyamory, to discuss the philosophy and practice of the polyamorous lovestyle.

An Unconditional Love - Explores ideas related to polyamory.
Meta Description: [ Ideas related to polyamory are explored in this site for polyamorous and poly curious people. ]

Church of All Worlds - CAW's mission is to evolve a network of information, mythology and experience that provides a context and stimulus for re-awakening Gaea, and re-uniting her children through tribal community dedicated to responsible stewardship and evolving consciousness.
Meta Description: [ CAWeb - The Official Web Site of the Church of All Worlds, Inc. ]

Free Love is Free Expression - The title essay argues that Polyamory is about freedom of the body, based on the grounds that sex is a cause for celebration, not for shame.

Institute for 21st Century Relationships - The non-profit Institute provides info on exploring/understanding workable alternatives to heterosexual, lifelong, sexually exclusive monogamy. Programs, conference/seminars and publications.
Meta Description: [ The non-profit Institute provides info on exploring/understanding workable alternatives to heterosexual, lifelong, sexually/emotionally-exclusive monogamy. Programs, conference/seminars and publications. ]

Liberated Christians: Polyamory - Promotes nonmonogamy, polyamory or swinging as a legitimate choice for Christians and others. Special focus on the Christian aspect, and whether the Bible and non-monogamy are compatible.
Meta Description: [ Liberated Christians, Promoting Positive Intimacy and Sexuality Including Responsible Nonmonogamy, Polyamory or 'Swinging' as a legitimate CHOICE for Christians and others. Exposing false traditions of sexual repression that have no biblical basis. Promoting Intimacy & Women-Centered Loving Sex... ]

Live The Dream - Live the Dream is an education and support group for people in group marriages.

Open Hearts Project, The - A small collection of very detailed personal stories describing people's experiences with polyamorous relationships.

500 Our Little Quad - Have you ever considered a group marriage? Do you ever wonder how in the world something like that could work out? Our Little Quad explains the hows and whys of a group marriage with practical advice and stories from their own lives.

500 Pearz Poly Personals and Dating Service - A personals board including features designed for polyamorous people and relationships. Currently free, cost subject to change.
Meta Description: [ Pearz Poly Personals - A unique dating service with sophisticated, intelligent features for Polyamorous and Polyfidelitous Relationships! ]

Poly Bureau, The - A polyamory discussion column, including questions and answers.
Meta Description: [ Introduction and index to columns on polyamory ]

Poly MatchMaker - An online personals site for poly people. Requires registration (free).
Meta Description: [ A Free Poly Personals Site ]

Poly Ring, The - A growing collection of websites about polyamory or by polyamorous people.
Meta Description: [ twomoons.com ]

Poly-friendly Professionals - Listings of counselors, therapists, lawyers, and other professionals who are open-minded about polyamory.
Meta Description: [ Polyamory-friendly therapists and other professionals. ]

Polyamory Awareness and Acceptance Ribbon Campaign - Products and resources for those interested in responsible non-monogamy.
Meta Description: [ Promoting awareness and acceptance of consensual non-monogamy as a lifestyle. ]

Polyamory Place - Information on alternative lifesyles, catering to couples, triads and bisexual relationships. Includes personal ads, postcards, bookstore, contests, links, chat and information.
Meta Description: [ Polyamory: Alternative Lifesyles, Catering to couples, triads and bisexual relationships... Personal Ads, Postcards, Bookstore, Contests, Links, Chat & Information ]

Polyamory Pride Flag - Design and explanation of the polyamory pride flag. Graphics available for inclusion in web pages.

Polyamory Society, The - The Polyamory Society is a nonprofit organization which promotes and supports the interest of individuals of multipartnered relationships and families.

polyamory.com - A good set of resources for the polyamorous. Attractively designed.

polyandproud.com - polyandproud.com .... playful and provocative polyamorous paraphernalia (plus essays and excerpts from a book in progress)

Sacred Space Institute - SSI's intention is to 'create a context in which the arts of whole systems healing, sacred sexuality, polyamory, community development and new paradigm relating can be taught, developed, applied, given professional legitimacy, and disseminated internationally.'
Meta Description: [ Dr. Deborah Anapol's Love Without Limits website offers workshops, articles, books, and videos on polyamory, sacred sexuality and conscious relationships. ]

Society for Human Sexuality polyamory info - The Society is a social and educational organization whose purpose is to promote understanding and appreciation for the many forms of adult intimate relationships and consensual sexual expression.

Star's Polyamory Page - Articles on polyamory, and links to resources.

The Simple Guide to Relationships - A short, simple guide to maintaining healthy relationships in your life, including relationships with friends, family, lovers, and partners. Did we say simple? We meant it. Simple things stick in the brain better.

What Psychology Professionals Should Know About Polyamory - Paper by Geri D. Weitzman, written for psychologists and psychiatrists.

Yahoo Groups: Polyamory - A place for the polyamorous community to meet and discuss poly issues.
Meta Description: [ Yahoo! Groups offers free mailing lists, photo & file sharing, group calendars and more. Discuss hot topics, share interests, join online communities. ]

Polyamory related videos
imperialism and cultural oppression. Like or don't like what you see? Please, comment. ... Cal Poly Pomona MEChA March ...
Next Video

 

HOMEADVERTISINGABOUT US

articlesartsbusinesscomputersgameshealthhospitalshomekids & teensnewsmobilephysiciansrecreationreferenceregionalscienceshoppingsocietysportsworld


Submit a Site About Become an Editor